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what's a nonbinary lesbian?

A nonbinary lesbian is just like any other lesbian! A lot of people have misconceptions about what 'nonbinary' means. People tend to mistake nonbinary for agender.
While agender people tend to view themselves as having no gender, a nonbinary person is just someone who's gender exists outside the gender binary.
If you feel somehow disconnected from manhood/womanhood- you might be nonbinary!

but what does that have to do with lesbianism?

Well, since nonbinary people's experiences are so vast and varried- basically any nonbinary person can identify with any sexuality. This is true about everyone, actually! The queer community is all about breaking labels, and that includes sexualities! Gender and attraction are weird, and labels help some people, but you should never force a label on someone who doesn't want it.

so... what does nonbinary lesbian 'mean'?

To me it means I use any pronouns and I like women. But everyone is different! If someone you know is a nonbinary lesbian, the best thing you can do is ask what it means to them. Just be aware their explination may not make sense to you, due to how personal sexualities/genders are to each individual.

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